Did you watch the Showtime Lakers, Bird Celtics, Bad Boys Pistons and Jordan Bulls? Yes or No.. This is playoff basketball and things are tampered differently because this is the NBA biggest STAGE. I think you may have just got accustomed to regular season basketball where the league is just trying to preserve for lack of better word the players season. Its the Finals and it just judge differently. This is not anything new.
I grew up with that age of basketball , never liked the Pistons and the Jordan Rules and all that. Every time Jordan drove to the basket his insurance premium went up !

. But Pistons did the same thing all season, no? They just beat him up , regular season or post. Laimbeer was not an angel during regular season LOL.
I know the intensity HAS to go up during playoffs but officiating should stay consistent. You can increase your intensity and still not foul people.
Imagine in tennis, they move the service line a foot closer to the net because it is a grand slam final...No, they don't do that just because it is a bigger stage and a more important moment and yet, players definitely play with more intensity in those finals. Stick to the rules that worked all season.
Having said that, if they actually change the rules on paper for playoffs and say certain rules can be disregarded and will not be called during playoffs, I am all for it. That would be honest.